Author: Chloe Markham

There was this one time, at uni, where I honestly thought I was going to die.

Yes, friend, if you’re a regular reader of this waffle of mine, you might be thinking I’m being a hypochondriac and over-dramatic again. And you might be right.

Let’s plough on anyway.

I had just moved into Talybont North – the bedbug-ridden halls at Cardiff University. And it turned out fairly quickly that, aside from a couple, I had pretty rubbish housemates, one of whom asked me how to work the toaster.

Let me repeat that incase you’re skimming.

She asked me how to work the fucking toaster.

And she was a law student. There’s no hope, is there.

So anyway, there I was. Hating university. No friends except a wonderful woman alllmost old enough to be my mother who I met sailing the year before (but that’s a tale for another day). And I had the sharp realisation that university-level classes were properly hard and I actually had to, y’know, study.

And suddenly, one night while I was lying in my poor excuse for a single bed, I realised I couldn’t quite catch my breath.

Not the way it feels after sprinting for a class you’re late for, but it was like I couldn’t breathe deep enough. My lungs didn’t seem to be able to fill up properly.

And I distinctly remember calling my mum panicking thinking, along with hating my lodgings and housemates and struggling with the workload, that I’d suddenly developed a weird strain of asthma.

“I CAN’T BE ASTHMATIC, MUM!” I remember despairing at her. And I’m sure she said something lovely and reassuring, but I reckoned I was basically a goner. I could die in my sleep or something from breathing-related issues. I didn’t know.

But y’know what? It’s about 12 years later now, and I know exactly what that breathing thing was:

My first experience of anxiety.

My chest tightens, I get heart palpitations, and I can’t breathe big, satisfying breaths. I still feel it sometimes today.

It got worse for me until, after moving into three other halls of residence, I was able to find a place to live on my own (and I lived on my own for the rest of my university years. Yes, I was massively privileged and a massive weirdo). Then I *really* started to practice yoga and things got better.

Restorative yoga
Restorative yoga – exactly the wind-down us anxious heads need

More recently I actually had the opportunity to go to one of TYR teacher Kat’s Big Calm classes. I was feeling fine when I flopped onto my mat and followed Kat’s instructions to make a pillow nest and snuggle down for a bit. But after a few minutes, I felt it. That tightness in my chest that I didn’t even know was there until I had the opportunity to look.But I wish I knew then what I know now. I wish I had the tools and the knowledge I now have to help me understand, not freak out, not panic, not make it worse.

So I labelled it. “This is anxiety”, I said to myself. I let it be there. I really felt where it was. I gave it permission, leaned into it instead of pushing it away. And you know what? It didn’t even take Kat’s full class to get me to a better place. My anxiety just slowly burned out about half-way through. So thanks for that, Kat. It’s a bloody awesome session I’m grateful to always have on-hand

Do you get anxious? Maybe it looks totally different for you. Maybe you’ve got your own tricks and techniques to help you feel better. 

But I implore you, if you’re not already, to find ways to manage it, to notice it, to feel it and let it work itself out before it implodes. This stuff is real. Chronic stress or anxiety, even low-level, can really mess things up for this epic machine we call our body AND our mind.

And it sure can feel like nothing will help, when you’re in the midst of a panic attack, or when your mind is doing somersaults.

But can you trust me when I tell you that, honestly and scientifically, breathing and slowing down will help (read my last blog with some of my favourite breaths to control anxiety).

If you’re feeling like I did, like you’re unsure how to deal with it, like you need some help, join our membership. Or take the free quiz, find out what kind of yogi you are, and get a free customised class.

You are enough.

Even if you’re anxious.

Just remember that.

Chloe - Founder and Lead Teacher

POSTED: 21/10/2021

Chloe is the founder of TYR and her mission in life is simple: to encourage and facilitate authentic happiness in herself and those around her, and this goes into each and every class she teaches.

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